5 Habits Of Highly Attractive People That Have Nothing To Do With Looks – Mindset Monday

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Think of someone you know who is truly magnetic. Someone that people just want to be around – even if they don’t know exactly why.

They’re the kind of person who everyone has a crush on. The kind of person that can walk into an interview and walk out with a job.

There’s just something about them…

Is it good looks?

The way they do their hair?

Their lean, toned body?

Their eyes?

The way they do their makeup?

The way they dress?

It could be a number of those things… but it stems from something deeper than outward appearance.

All of those things are great – but they’re also superficial. And having a superficial mentality only gets you so far. I know because there was a time in my life where I allowed outward circumstances to drive me.

But not anymore. And I want to share with you 5 habits that you can implement right now to become HIGHLY ATTRACTIVE to the world around you – and they have nothing to do with outward appearances.

#1 You Empower Yourself


“We stopped checking for monsters under the bed when we realized they were inside of us.” – Unknown

Attractive people don’t need pep talks because they give their own! If you could sit inside their head you would hear a stream of positive thoughts that are FOR them and their success.

Attractive people LIKE themselves. They like being who they are and they can spend time alone because they enjoy their own company. They don’t put themselves down or doubt themselves. They truly believe that they are WORTH IT.

They aren’t threatened by the success of others but rejoice as if it is their own. They are competing with only themselves. Their confidence isn’t based on approval by their peers but by a deep inner steadiness.

#2 You Focus On Mindset


“The mind is the limit. As long as the mind can envision the fact that you can do something, you can do it, as long as you really believe 100 percent.” – Arnold Schwarzenegger

Attractive people focus on mindset. They understand that their THOUGHTS and BELIEFS create their REALITY. They MEDITATE and take time to STREAMLINE their thoughts.

If you were to go back in time and look at the mindset of people you think are attractive now…you would see that their mindset was paving the pathway for who they would become in the future. Their minds were already focused on who they wanted to be as if they already were.

Attractive people understand that things like failure, rejection, heartache, disappointment, etc…are temporary and only bringing them closer to success. They are well practiced at shaking off the sting of these situations and are strong enough to continue moving forward.  

#3 You Allow Yourself To Be 100% Genuine

“If you cannot hear the sound of the genuine in you, you will all of your life spend your days on the ends of strings that somebody else pulls.” – Howard Thurman

One of the most important traits of an attractive person is this: they embrace who they are. Strengths, weaknesses, shortcomings, talents- they accept it all about themselves.

Because they aren’t afraid to be genuine with themselves they have no problem being genuine with others. They aren’t embarrassed or ashamed of their shortcomings because they know everyone has them, and they make them more relatable.

Imagine that there were three versions of you standing on a stage. One is standing center stage; the person you are when you are in public and surrounded by other people. Another one of you is standing off to this side; it is the you that you are when you are with close friends and family. Then there is the you standing completely off stage. This is who you are when you are alone.

Attractive people bring these three versions of themselves so close together that they are one person…they are they same person all the time. They never wear a face. They never play pretend. They are who they are and they are content with that. Their center-stage version and their back-stage version is the same being.

Attractive people are not afraid to be vulnerable.

#4 You Are True To Yourself

“Your only obligation in any lifetime is to be true to yourself.” – Richard Bach

This has everything to do with THE REASON you are who you are, and the reason you do the things you do.

Attractive people do NOT do things simply for approval or validation from others. They do not do things simply for appearance.  

Why are you working the job you work?

Pursuing the career you are?

Engaging in the hobbies you do?

Dating the people you date?

Seeing the movies you see?

Living in the place you live?

Eating the food you eat?

When attractive people do something, it’s because they genuinely want to.

Attractive people live with passion and vigor because they are living from their heart. They don’t waste precious time and energy worrying about what other people think of them.  

#5 You Know How To Listen


“The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply.” – Unknown

One of the most attractive traits a person can have is being a GOOD LISTENER.

Not just to what people say, but what they don’t say.

Attractive people know how to focus in on another person and make them feel like they are #1 for the moment. Their ability to listen makes them good at connecting with other people. They are confident enough in themselves NOT to be the spotlight.  

You would be surprised at how many people do NOT know how to do this! Especially in an age where distraction is everywhere… especially in our vibrating, dinging, bright-screened devices.

It is so tempting to look down at our phones or scroll through facebook or simply look away from people while they are talking to us… because we have forgotten how to truly connect with a human being. To look into their eyes. To listen without thinking of our reply. To put aside everything and zone in on what is really important in the moment… another human being.

Because attractive people know how to listen and have been practicing it for years, they also have strong empathy.

Even though looking good on the outside – eating well, working out, looking nice – are important, they do not necessarily make a person attractive.

Just like taking care of your GUT and your ORGANS, which are clearly internal, make you look healthy on the outside – cultivating a healthy mindset and inner self are the key to becoming an appealing person to those around you.

It really boils down to being true to yourself and giving others the space to do the same.

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Drew Canole

Drew Canole

CEO at Fitlife.tv
Drew Canole is a rockstar in the world of fitness, nutrition and mindset, with a huge heart for others and doing his part to transform the world, one person at a time.

As the founder and CEO of Fitlife.TV, he is committed to sharing educational, inspirational and entertaining videos and articles about health, fitness, healing and longevity. He is also a best selling author and the founder of Organifi, an organic, incredibly delicious greens powder, chock-full of superfoods to make juicing easy no matter your busy schedule.
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